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Taking Charge of Adult ADHD: Addressing Attention Difficulties

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Navigating the complexities of adult life with attention deficit disorder (ADHD/ADD) can be difficult. ADHD can make you feel frustrated, broken and unable to focus or complete even the simplest task. Lack of organization and procrastination may seem to rule your world. But ADHD can also be viewed as an opportunity for growth, and self-discovery. For some, ADHD can become a productivity super power.

Understanding, managing, and harnessing the characteristics of ADHD requires patience, self-awareness, and a toolkit of strategies designed for success. In this blog we’ll shed light on a few of these strategies and discuss ADHD in the context of two important parts of our life: how does ADHD impact the workplace, and our romantic relationships?


Understanding ADHD in Adults

ADHD manifests in adulthood with symptoms that can significantly impact various aspects of life, from work performance to personal relationships. These days it’s not uncommon for individuals to be diagnosed with ADHD in adulthood, having possibly struggled through school without ever knowing why. Adults with ADHD may find themselves struggling with organizational tasks, time management, and maintaining focus on activities that do not spark their interest. However, it’s crucial to recognize that individuals with ADHD are often capable of hyper-focusing on tasks that do interest them, showcasing remarkable dedication and creativity.

Being diagnosed with ADHD does not and should not immediately result in the prescription of ADHD medication. It’s important that you evaluate your options and pick the management strategy that seems best aligned with your values and goals.


The Difference Between ADD and ADHD

Historically, ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) and ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) were considered separate diagnoses, the former lacking the hyperactivity component present in the latter. However, the medical community now recognizes these conditions as part of a broader spectrum under the single diagnosis of ADHD, categorized into three types: predominantly inattentive, predominantly hyperactive/impulsive, and combined. Despite this trifecta of ADHD categories, each individual will manifest their symptoms of ADHD in a unique way—no two people are alike. Still, this unification into one diagnosis of ADHD underscores the diverse manifestations of ADHD and encourages a more holistic approach to understanding and treating the disorder.


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Coping with ADHD at Work

The professional environment can pose significant challenges for individuals with ADHD, from staying organized to meeting deadlines and participating in meetings that require prolonged focus. Strategies for navigating these challenges include:


      • Breaking down tasks into smaller, more manageable steps 

      • Leveraging to-do lists and digital reminders to keep track of responsibilities 

      • Using timers to maintain focus 

      • Organizing a clutter-free workspace 

      • Utilizing Do Not Disturb mode, or phone-free workzones


    Open communication with employers and colleagues about one’s condition can also lead to adjustments and accommodations that facilitate a more productive working environment.


    Navigating Relationships with ADHD

    Dating as Someone with ADHD

    ADHD can influence dating and relationships through behaviors stemming from impulsivity, forgetfulness, and emotional sensitivity. Successful strategies involve clear and compassionate communication, utilizing reminders for important dates, and being upfront about the unique challenges and needs associated with ADHD.

    Dating Someone with ADHD

    Understanding and patience are key when dating someone with ADHD. It’s important to view behaviors through the ADHD lens, recognizing them as part of the disorder rather than personal faults. Supporting a partner involves patience, open dialogues about ADHD, and assisting in the establishment of routines that can help manage symptoms.


    The Role of Therapy in Managing ADHD

    Therapy, particularly cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), can play a crucial role in managing ADHD. It offers strategies for organization, prioritization, and the development of coping mechanisms tailored to individual needs. Therapy also addresses the emotional aspects of living with ADHD, such as dealing with associated anxiety, depression, and self-esteem issues. The Truism Center employs numerous therapists for ADHD in Grand Rapids, Grandville, Troy and Commerce Township. Click here to schedule a consultation to learn more about therapy for managing ADHD.



    Living with ADHD does present a unique set of challenges, but with the right strategies, understanding, and support, it is possible to navigate these challenges successfully. Whether it’s through personal strategies, professional help, or the support of loved ones, taking charge of ADHD is a journey toward empowerment and self-fulfillment.

    If you or someone you know is navigating the complexities of ADHD, consider reaching out to a healthcare professional or therapist. Embrace the journey toward managing ADHD with confidence and support, and remember, it’s never too late to seek help and make positive changes.



    Robb Kornoelje is the owner of The Truism Center, a relationship enthusiast, and the creator of the “30-Day Relationship Challenge.” This 30-day, fully online email course offers gentle guidance to identify behaviors causing trouble, find ease with emotions, and enhance self-awareness. With a focus on stress-free communication, the challenge encourages a stronger connection with others, nurturing compassion, and fostering forgiveness. Join Robb on this journey to improve the fabric of your relationships—one day at a time.